Giving monetary gifts, often called "red packets" or lai see (利是), is customary at weddings in Hong Kong. The amount depends on your relationship with the couple, the venue, and local customs. Here's a guideline:
| Relationship to the Couple | Suggested Amount (HKD) | Notes |
|---|---|---|
| Close Family | $2,000–$10,000+ | Immediate family members often give higher amounts, showing support for the couple. |
| Close Friends | $800–$2,000 | Reflects a strong relationship and good wishes for the couple. |
| Coworkers/Acquaintances | $500–$800 | A standard amount for attending as a respectful gesture. |
| Distant Relatives or Casual Friends | $300–$500 | Appropriate for a less close relationship. |
| Luxury Venue (e.g., 5-star hotel) | $1,200–$3,000 | Higher amounts are expected to help cover the cost of the banquet at high-end locations. |
| Standard Venue | $800–$1,200 | A moderate amount if the wedding is held in a mid-range venue. |
| Did Not Attend (Sent Gift) | $200–$500 | A gesture of goodwill for missing the event. |
Tips:
- Avoid Odd Numbers: Amounts ending in odd numbers or 4 (e.g., $444) are considered unlucky. Opt for even numbers.
- Know the Venue: Giving enough to cover your share of the banquet is a sign of respect.
- Personal Touch: Include a warm message in the red packet to make it more heartfelt.
